Fear of Rejection

Improving Our Life in 2013 - Overcoming the Fear of Rejection

Introduction

The fear of rejection stands as the number one fear among mankind. This deep-seated anxiety affects every area of our lives - from our relationships and careers to our spiritual walk with God. Many people who struggle with this fear have earned it through years of painful rejection from parents, spouses, friends, or colleagues. The wounds of past rejections can create a cycle of fear that paradoxically leads to the very rejection we're trying to avoid.

When we live in fear of rejection, we often develop carefully monitored and scripted ways of life - what we might call phoniness. Consider the job interview scenario: sitting there nervous, sweating, unable to speak well when asked questions. This very fear ...